Hi. My name is Wendy Blackheart.
If you meet me at an event, that is the name I use. I answer to Wendy everywhere – even at school.
However, it is NOT my real name. It is a nom de plum, and a scene name.
I mean really, Blackheart? What am I, a pirate?
I would assume that since I don’t hide the fact that this is not my real name, and that I mention using pseudonyms, that people would have figured that most of the boys I write about here are written about under a false name. I either use their public scene name, if I have their permission, or I create a name.
Sebastian, for example, is not anywhere near his real name. In fact, before being Sebastian, he was (and I believe he still is) written about on other blogs under a totally different name. I changed it because a) I hated the other name people used for him and b) he looks like a Sebastian. Like, St. Sebastian. All tall and skinny and pretty…and he’d probably look hot tied to a post filled with arrows.
Anyway. Sebastian is not his real name. If you meet someone in the scene (which, btw, is rather large) who’s name is Sebastian, it is definitely not the same Sebastian I write about here.
I mention this, because in my wanderings, I met a boy named Sebastian. He is *not* the boy who’s ass I fist (though I must say, he is aesthetically very much my type. Very good looking, very pretty.) However, he is emphatically not my Sebastian. So if you meet him, don’t ask about his latest fisting. Because he’s not getting fisted, at least not by me.
And really, its silly to make assumptions abut people. :)
9 responses so far ↓
1 Dizzy // Jun 23, 2009 at 3:10 am
You may not be a pirate, but we all know you’re an ass bandit!
2 Dizzy // Jun 23, 2009 at 3:14 am
Or perhaps what I should have said: Yes, you’re a pirate.
3 Adriana // Jun 23, 2009 at 3:46 am
You mean you didn’t tour with Joan Jett?!? ;)
4 Gabe // Jun 23, 2009 at 8:42 am
What am I, a pirate?
Well… I was hoping so. Thanks for crushing my dreams, Wendy.
5 Lolita // Jun 23, 2009 at 9:28 am
Whoa! You mean you don’t play with Joan Jett???
6 Sex Blog // Jun 23, 2009 at 9:52 pm
Wendy I love your blog. It is really informative and puts a perspective that the industry needs.
7 Dizzy // Jun 23, 2009 at 9:59 pm
I just discovered:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=butt+pirate
So perhaps you are actually a pirate, after a fashion.
8 April // Jun 24, 2009 at 2:52 am
Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your site and wanted to say
that I’ve really enjoyed browsing your posts. In any case
I’ll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you post again soon!
9 marcelloNYC // Jun 25, 2009 at 10:37 am
I am having the hardest time with the whole alias/pen name.
I have always used Marcello over the last 18 years after it was bestowed upon me by Andrea, but lately I feel like the real name is fighting with Marcello for dominance. I think it comes from the fact that I am making friends, and if those new a friendships intermingle with older friendships—how do I handle the two in the same environment.
I also have been expressing my sexuality more under the real name. So “x” has been acting more the way Marcello acts and feels. I am about to tell my parents I am bisexual. I don’t feel the need for the duality anymore, but still want to write under Marcello.
Confusing!
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